Letters to the Wan and only!
Dreams last for so long, even after you're gone...Sunday, August 14, 2005
Three is a crowd!
Dearest Wan,
Remember that year when you came back and attended the young adults’ camp? I only managed to go on the second day as I had to attend a training at another hill resort.
It was tiring. I woke up early that day and had to take a team of teens to do a short mission outing. Later, I drove all the way down from that hill resort, sent a mate home and started to go up the other hill resort where the camp was!
But yet, we stayed up the whole nite that nite chatting! I’ll never forget that nite. It was so long since I had seen u before the camp, yet when we met during the camp, it was just like old times again. The period of time between when we last talked just disappeared. It has always been like that wif us, hasn’t it?
When we had a camp at the same venue again not too long ago, it was a lil difficult as I sat down at the same place where we sat that nite so long ago. Then remember when we decided to “break out” of campsite and walk to the nearest Coffee Bean outlet some 30 mins away?
I won’t forget how you almost got me to break my head!!!! You “broke out” first as I had to make sure our disappearance went undetected. By the time I got on top of the high pillar by the main gate, you were by the side of the road waiting for me. I asked how did you manage to climb down from that pillar and you said you jumped. And you told me to hurry up and jump! It was really high (the highest I ever jumped down from!!!) but I told meself, “If she can do it, so can I”!
I did and although I landed on me feet, I had to scramble a few paces forward to prevent me from falling over!!!! When I looked at you, you had this shocked look on your face and you said “Wah…. You really jump-ah?”
After coffee, we walked back, climbed back over and went in and chatted sum more. Before we knew it, it was time to “wake-up” for the rest!!!
I was a real zombie that day!!!
The funny (or weird?) thing about the whole incident was that thru out the whole nite, we weren’t alone!!!! Yeah, K was wif us all the time, chatting wif us, breaking out wif us, having coffee wif us!!!! It was so weird cuz we really wanted to have some time alone. In fact, when we first started off talking, we were basically talking alone to each other but wif others around. Slowly, the rest left and K came over to join us!!!! We stayed up the whole nite partly cuz we both were jus hoping that he would at sum point of time go in to sleep and we could have some time alone!!!!
Couldn’t he see that we wanted to be alone??? Sheessh!
To be fair to K, he prolly din know we wanted to be alone – and we were just too nice, weren’t we?
Anyways, I have some similar encounters like that recently. I jus can’t understand some people!!! 2 incidents took place. Some people can be just sooooo thick skinned!!!!
First was regarding me previous blog. I mean, if I dun invite a person to that blog (even after she had been questioning me about it), why can’t they accept it? Well, this girl couldn’t. Somehow, she managed to obtain the web add for me blog and went there and left a comment on a post!!!!!
Would you do that? If someone had a blog and made it clear that they dun want you to read it, wouldn’t u respect that person’s privacy?? And even if you do finally get to know the blog add, would you get on and let the person know???
Second incident took place last week-end. We were at the interiors. The girls slept inside while me and another mate slept on the porch outside. As the porch was the “common area”, we waited til both girls finally went in to sleep before we could sleep – or chat!!!! I really wanted to catch up wif me mate – he recently broke up wif his girl fren and I was planning to talk about it.
So when the girls went in, we finally had the chance to share, update each other about our “love life” (of which mine is virtually non-existent!!!) and… well, when 2 single young guys talk, surely the topic of other girls would arise! C’mon. I’m sure when u chat wif yr gril-frens, you would talk about other guys, rite?
So we did. Openly!
Now comes the freaky part. Next morning, one of the girls approached me mate and told him that she heard wat we talked about!!!! Not only that, she commented about a girl that we talked about oso!!!!!
I was pissed, naturally. And … perplexed!!! I mean, if you had eavesdropped on some other people’s conversation, that was bad enuf. But to tell them about it the next and even want to “join in” wif your comments…???? Now, that’s..???
Women!
OK. So she was awake and perhaps she couldn’t help overhearing our conversation? No way! I dun believe it. It was obvious that we started our conversation after the girls left. It was obvious that we were talking about very personal matters. And we weren’t talking at the top of our voices!!! Even if one was to lie awake and hear the voices, they should have the decency and respect to block out the conversation – which is not so hard if you were indoors and the conversation was outdoors and conducted in very low voices!!!!!
Imagine if I stumble across your diary. It would be bad if I read thru it – especially all the parts when you expressed your thoughts about a person. But it would be downright … I can’t think of a word but what would you think if I approached you, told you I read your diary and then try to have a conversation wif you about yr views on the person you wrote about?
There sure are some weirdos around…
Remember that year when you came back and attended the young adults’ camp? I only managed to go on the second day as I had to attend a training at another hill resort.
It was tiring. I woke up early that day and had to take a team of teens to do a short mission outing. Later, I drove all the way down from that hill resort, sent a mate home and started to go up the other hill resort where the camp was!
But yet, we stayed up the whole nite that nite chatting! I’ll never forget that nite. It was so long since I had seen u before the camp, yet when we met during the camp, it was just like old times again. The period of time between when we last talked just disappeared. It has always been like that wif us, hasn’t it?
When we had a camp at the same venue again not too long ago, it was a lil difficult as I sat down at the same place where we sat that nite so long ago. Then remember when we decided to “break out” of campsite and walk to the nearest Coffee Bean outlet some 30 mins away?
I won’t forget how you almost got me to break my head!!!! You “broke out” first as I had to make sure our disappearance went undetected. By the time I got on top of the high pillar by the main gate, you were by the side of the road waiting for me. I asked how did you manage to climb down from that pillar and you said you jumped. And you told me to hurry up and jump! It was really high (the highest I ever jumped down from!!!) but I told meself, “If she can do it, so can I”!
I did and although I landed on me feet, I had to scramble a few paces forward to prevent me from falling over!!!! When I looked at you, you had this shocked look on your face and you said “Wah…. You really jump-ah?”
After coffee, we walked back, climbed back over and went in and chatted sum more. Before we knew it, it was time to “wake-up” for the rest!!!
I was a real zombie that day!!!
The funny (or weird?) thing about the whole incident was that thru out the whole nite, we weren’t alone!!!! Yeah, K was wif us all the time, chatting wif us, breaking out wif us, having coffee wif us!!!! It was so weird cuz we really wanted to have some time alone. In fact, when we first started off talking, we were basically talking alone to each other but wif others around. Slowly, the rest left and K came over to join us!!!! We stayed up the whole nite partly cuz we both were jus hoping that he would at sum point of time go in to sleep and we could have some time alone!!!!
Couldn’t he see that we wanted to be alone??? Sheessh!
To be fair to K, he prolly din know we wanted to be alone – and we were just too nice, weren’t we?
Anyways, I have some similar encounters like that recently. I jus can’t understand some people!!! 2 incidents took place. Some people can be just sooooo thick skinned!!!!
First was regarding me previous blog. I mean, if I dun invite a person to that blog (even after she had been questioning me about it), why can’t they accept it? Well, this girl couldn’t. Somehow, she managed to obtain the web add for me blog and went there and left a comment on a post!!!!!
Would you do that? If someone had a blog and made it clear that they dun want you to read it, wouldn’t u respect that person’s privacy?? And even if you do finally get to know the blog add, would you get on and let the person know???
Second incident took place last week-end. We were at the interiors. The girls slept inside while me and another mate slept on the porch outside. As the porch was the “common area”, we waited til both girls finally went in to sleep before we could sleep – or chat!!!! I really wanted to catch up wif me mate – he recently broke up wif his girl fren and I was planning to talk about it.
So when the girls went in, we finally had the chance to share, update each other about our “love life” (of which mine is virtually non-existent!!!) and… well, when 2 single young guys talk, surely the topic of other girls would arise! C’mon. I’m sure when u chat wif yr gril-frens, you would talk about other guys, rite?
So we did. Openly!
Now comes the freaky part. Next morning, one of the girls approached me mate and told him that she heard wat we talked about!!!! Not only that, she commented about a girl that we talked about oso!!!!!
I was pissed, naturally. And … perplexed!!! I mean, if you had eavesdropped on some other people’s conversation, that was bad enuf. But to tell them about it the next and even want to “join in” wif your comments…???? Now, that’s..???
Women!
OK. So she was awake and perhaps she couldn’t help overhearing our conversation? No way! I dun believe it. It was obvious that we started our conversation after the girls left. It was obvious that we were talking about very personal matters. And we weren’t talking at the top of our voices!!! Even if one was to lie awake and hear the voices, they should have the decency and respect to block out the conversation – which is not so hard if you were indoors and the conversation was outdoors and conducted in very low voices!!!!!
Imagine if I stumble across your diary. It would be bad if I read thru it – especially all the parts when you expressed your thoughts about a person. But it would be downright … I can’t think of a word but what would you think if I approached you, told you I read your diary and then try to have a conversation wif you about yr views on the person you wrote about?
There sure are some weirdos around…
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This has nothing to do with your post (above). You'll know what I mean from my mail....
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I'll be praying for you =)
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