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Dreams last for so long, even after you're gone...Monday, September 05, 2005
Chemistry
Dearest Wan,
I got an e-mail from a mate of mine. She was basically telling me wat a wonderful person this other sister is and how she thinks that this sister and me "...will be fab together"!!!
I replied telling her that there has to be more than just common traits and interest. Sure, I like that particualar sister and do enjoy talking to her to some extent. But that's it. It surely can't be a check-list that I tick in order to find someone to go out wif.
There has to be "chemistry"!
In reply to my reply, this mate asked wat I meant by "chemistry". She asked:-
"Chemistry? Are we talking physical chemistry (zap zap) or more like the fact that when you start talking, hours can slip away and the next thing you know it's 4 in the morning? And after you just had dinner and movie together, you STILL want to go home and talk summore crap on the phone?"
I told her that it is of course the latter - and that the latter actually actually is an accurate description of how it was between you and me, how when we talk, the hours do indeed slip away. And after dinner and movie, we would always still go back and talk on the phone for hours. Yeah, that caused many a horrible day at work for me, being a zombie wif panda eyes - but a silly grin on me face!
I know I shud not use wat we had as a yard-stick for any potential relationships but surely I dun wan to just "settle" for anything less than wat we had! You can understand that, can't you?
Or did you actually "settled" for sumthing less than wat we had? I hope not!
I got an e-mail from a mate of mine. She was basically telling me wat a wonderful person this other sister is and how she thinks that this sister and me "...will be fab together"!!!
I replied telling her that there has to be more than just common traits and interest. Sure, I like that particualar sister and do enjoy talking to her to some extent. But that's it. It surely can't be a check-list that I tick in order to find someone to go out wif.
There has to be "chemistry"!
In reply to my reply, this mate asked wat I meant by "chemistry". She asked:-
"Chemistry? Are we talking physical chemistry (zap zap) or more like the fact that when you start talking, hours can slip away and the next thing you know it's 4 in the morning? And after you just had dinner and movie together, you STILL want to go home and talk summore crap on the phone?"
I told her that it is of course the latter - and that the latter actually actually is an accurate description of how it was between you and me, how when we talk, the hours do indeed slip away. And after dinner and movie, we would always still go back and talk on the phone for hours. Yeah, that caused many a horrible day at work for me, being a zombie wif panda eyes - but a silly grin on me face!
I know I shud not use wat we had as a yard-stick for any potential relationships but surely I dun wan to just "settle" for anything less than wat we had! You can understand that, can't you?
Or did you actually "settled" for sumthing less than wat we had? I hope not!
posted by imissw # 6:49 pm 
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